a lesson from little sister

last week i brought home two poinsettia plants from work, and knowing i did not need them and they would only surely die in my care, i thought it would be a nice gesture for the girls to take one each to their teachers as an early christmas gift.  when i got home, little sister was excited, but big sister told me she was not interested in taking it to her teacher.  (this is typical with my introvert vs. extrovert children)

so, i thought about it and told little sister she could take one to her teacher and take the other to the literacy teacher.  she is actually big sister's literacy/dyslexia teacher, but - again, i knew better than to ask big sister to deliver it.  i found a paper bag large enough to hold the two plants, and instructed little sister to take the plants to the teachers as soon as she got to school, and to tell them they need to water them.  she accepted the assignment, but wanted to add to it. 

the literacy teacher is undergoing chemo as part of her breast cancer treatment, and she has recently lost all of her hair.  normally a dark brunette, the girls told me the other day that she came to school in a blond wig, and another day she wore a fun hat. about a month ago, daddy brought home a neon pink wig he found at work, and little sister quickly decided that she wanted to take it to her as another option.  so she slipped the pink wig into the bag with the plants.  

at first, daddy and i thought that maybe that was not the best idea, thinking that perhaps it would be insensitive to offer such an item to someone going thru such a trauma in their life, but i could also see that little sister was truly just trying to help out and meant no harm.  so i let her take it.  that was last friday.

today, i got a message from the teacher saying that she loved the wig and was having fun with it.  i was so relieved to hear that!  but i am most happy to witness how this woman is making such a positive impact on little sister, and that little sister is engaged in the lives of those influencing her life.  i am very proud of you, little sister, and hope you keep your sweetness, innocence and fearlessness for as long as possible.  we could all learn a little from you.

opening day

after everything got cancelled last weekend because of the ice storm, today became the new opening day for the winter basketball season - and we were right in the thick of it all!  up first: little sister's 9am basketball game.  we lost 4-12, but we'll get 'em next time!

then we went home, changed outfits, did some quick shopping and had lunch, then headed to little sister's cheer game at 12:45pm.

last, but certainly not least, we had big sister's cheer game at 4pm. 

today was a nice teaser for how our saturdays will be starting in the new year, until late february.  rest up now, girls!  and after all that, we still weren't done.  we had daddy's company's holiday party from 7-11pm.  food, drinks, music, co-workers, all ending with daddy winning a door prize: blue-tooth speakers for his iPad.  (thanks, grandpa, for babysitting!) 

our new friend

meet nicole kristine, our elf friend that santa sent from the north pole to check on us and report back to him.  we got her last year, and packed her away.  honestly, the girls were creeped out by the idea of a little elf, sitting on a shelf, watching their every move - so they chose not to let her out after thanksgiving this year, as is the usual tradition.  well, she must have gotten tired of waiting, or got some firm orders from the man in the red suit - cause she appeared this morning on the fish tank.  she surprised us all - but the girls have taken well to her presence.  they can't wait to see where she moves to next.  we decided to name her nicole kristine, the girls' middle names combined.

the weekend that wasn't

so, we had a very busy weekend planned, and many arrangements were made so we could do most of it, but thanks to the icy conditions, we are not able to do any of them. 

1.  the girls' pizza party for cheer last night - cancelled

2. little sister's first basketball game at 9:45am - cancelled

3. little sister's first cheer game at 12:45pm - cancelled

4. big sister's first cheer game at 4pm - cancelled

5. a friend's birthday party from 4-6pm - too far to drive in the ice

6.  the central oklahoma ballet presents the nutcracker at 8pm - highway shut down so we couldn't leave dallas

7. big sister's choir event at little elm's christmas festival at 8pm - cancelled

so, another day of staying indoors...the girls decorated their gingerbread houses, wrote letters to santa, and we all pretty much took it easy.

snow day!

the weathermen were right this time, and our whole area fell victim to the "arctic blast" that started yesterday around 4pm.  freezing rain turned to sleet and ice pellets, and all night long we were pummeled with a wintery mix of precipitation.  when we woke this morning, it looked like a blanket of beautiful snow, but in reality it is pure ice.  rock solid.  so everything shut down, including school - and we tried to make the best of being stranded indoors.

i baked cookies all morning - about 4 dozen mint chocolate chip, 4 dozen oatmeal-cinnamon chip, 4 dozen candy cane kiss, and 8 dozen sugar.

the girls got all dressed up to go play in the "snow," but were rather disappointed to only find ice outside.  they still played for a bit, then came inside for hot cocoa.  at least their toes were warm and dry in their snow boots. 

happy thanksgiving!

movie date

in an effort to avoid sending the girls to daycare and paying full tuition for only 2.5 days of use, the girls went to work with me today and tried to quietly entertain themselves. 

thankfully, we only had to do that for the morning.  grandpa took pity on us and treated us to lunch, then took the girls to see a movie while mommy finished up her workday.  nothing like a trip to the mall to kill a few hours!  the girls even sweet-talked grandpa into buying them a few new friends from the disney store.  thanks, grandpa!